Happy Friday.....I had a wonderful week, and I am definitely ready for the weekend. This past week I had interesting conversation with different people that left me thinking about how the words of those closest to us can affect how we think,and how we deal with and build relationships with other human beings. These words can affect very important decisions in our lives. Our loved ones have a way of projecting their fears and insecurities into our thoughts. We may look up to our friend, or relative for advice and share our deepest darkest secrets looking for validation. There is nothing wrong with seeking advice, or wanting approval from those you love, all that I am saying is that it is very important to consider the person who is providing advice. Consider the source.
We all have been wounded, we all have had experiences that we may not be the proudest of, but I now know that this a part of the journey through life. It's easy for these experiences to make a person afraid, bitter, condescending etc. When people get advice from someone they love, whether it is from their mom, sister, best friend or lover there must be the understanding that this person loves you and doesn't want to see you hurt, so they may advise you to put your dream aside, and be "normal" or not to fall in love because "he is no good;I know his type" because they have been in love before and don't want you to experience the pain that comes with the loss of love. We are often warned to play it safe, and this is how great opportunities are missed.
As the weekend approaches Femme Noir only wants you to meditate on your own dreams and aspirations. This weekend do something that will bring you joy and a feeling of freedom, whether it's going to the movies, sleeping in, working out, or going to a restaurant...do what you want to do without restrictions. Don't be afraid to try something new; you just might like it.
Create new experiences and add a new stamp to your passport of life. We are always evolving. It's nice to get advice and it may be coming from a place of love with the best intentions, but it is always important to follow your heart and your calling in life. Sometimes it might mean trekking in the mud, before taking the stroll on the beach. You will never know what can unfold until you create a life from your perspective. We all have the potential for greatness. I like to compare my life to the Lotus Flower. I am blossoming into something delicate and beautiful to behold, but like the lotus flower I had to plant my roots in the mud before I was able to break free to the surface to show the world who I really am, and how beautiful I have become.
Consider The Source:
1. Your Dreams, Your Wishes, Your Goals are yours and yours alone that's why you are unique.
2. Listen to advice but only accept what agrees with your own soul. You know what's right for you deep down inside.
3. When those you love give you advice that may discourage you, don't get angry consider their past experiences and fears. They want to protect you. Most of the time the discouragement is coming from a loving place.
4. It's ok to make mistakes...Isn't that how we learn?
5. Find someone to be your mentor. This person is going in the direction that you want to go, or they have already arrived.
6. Believe in yourself. (If you don't who will?)
7. Write down your dreams and work toward them one by one.
8. Relax and Breathe
9. Be Bold
10. Listen to your inner voice, meditate daily, and don't worry.
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